ecks said:
Since I have no idea what to do with my life yet, i'm contemplating different career choices I can pursue. Becoming a librarian and reading books all day seems very tempting to me. But I wonder, how much is the pay for a librarian? Is it enough to pay the bills? It seems like a very easy and relaxing job
So, basically what you want is to be able to relax and read books all day - no pressure, no deadlines, and enough pay to make a decent living?
When you find that, please let me know. In fact, post something here, I am sure a lot of folks would be interested in such a career path!
I have been in the job market since I was sixteen (over 20 years now) and have worked in more than 12 different career fields looking for that job that I would love to do. Here's what I have found:
1. Every job has something about it that you hate doing.
2. Most jobs that seem "fun", are fun for about 1% of the time. (10% tops). The remaining 90% of most jobs is tedious and boring.
3. Even the fun part ceases to be fun when you have to do it to pay the bills.
Here is where I am now:
I have tried many different ways to make money. My goal was to make enough money so that I didn't have to work, and could spend my time writing. I am realizing that (duh) maybe I can write well enough, and often enough, to be able to make a living at it. If not, at least I will be writing while I am earning a living. I think if we can honestly look at what we would do with our lives if money were not an issue, then find a way of making money at that, then we will be on our way to a satisfying job. When I tell this to people, many times they reply "How do I make money playing video games and sleeping." My answer to that is eventually, you will become bored, and need to find something to do; what will
that thing be? If you can't get beyond sleeping and playing video games, then it is probably best to plan on working for someone else until you die.
Another thing I am learning, and I am not sure how relevant it is to this thread, is that we often seek happiness outside of ourselves. We look for our jobs, or our spouse/mate, or our hobbies to make us happy. These things INVARIABLY let us down. I am learning to find a source of joy in myself. although we all disappoint ourselves, we never abandon ourselves (like it or not). Finding joy in us (whether that is God or Allah, or just our own conscience), gives us a rock to rest on when the job goes bad, or the world gives us the bird.
sorry to ramble. good luck with your career search.