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RainbowGurl

RainbowGurl

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The guy that I love is going to be away for over a month to finish his schooling because he is very far behind, I won't be seeing him for over a month, can someone please give me some advice to deal with this experience? Thanks, most apreciated! :(
 
Sure, just keep in contact with each other :) The month will pass very quickly. Do not worry yourself.
 
Spend a lot of your free time with friends and family, or do things that you enjoy. If you sit around doing nothing, wishing he were back with you, you'll just be miserable.
 
I'll probably get some flak for saying this but I feel it has to be said.

Grow up and join the real world. One month is nothing and the world isn't all rainbows and shiny stuff.

Hope this helps. :)
 
All credit to you though as you are the first person I've seen on a forum spell 'advice' correctly for a long time. :D
 
How do you usually see it spelt? As in to advise? I guess it depends on the context :)
 
Thanks Mort, I feel that already and its only been 1 day! :rolleyes: I'll do alot of reading to keep my mind off the surrounding world ;)
 
Definitely spend lots of free time with your friends & read a lot. I've had to spend time away from my husband, and books & friends are what kept me sane (it was about a month).
 
RainbowGurl said:
The guy that I love is going to be away for over a month to finish his schooling because he is very far behind, I won't be seeing him for over a month, can someone please give me some advice to deal with this experience? Thanks, most apreciated! :(
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I always admire people's courage to put things out and dare to ask for advices. It is really pretty hard for me to do that, though i am longing inside for some wise words from others.

Rainbow girl, i can understand how you felt about as the other never emailed back your letters. i tended to interprete that as a kind silent rejection of me. well, i don't know. since there is always suffering in this way or that, one has to muster courage to endure that.

Take care and be brave, :)
 
watercrystal said:
Rainbow girl, i can understand how you felt about as the other never emailed back your letters. i tended to interprete that as a kind silent rejection of me.
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Yes, I feel that way.


Rainbowgurl, maybe you should ask him why he never emails? Mabye there is a reason. You should have a talk about him with it and let him no that when he does not awnser your emails that it upsets you :)
 
I suppose RaVeN will accuse me of a lack of tact as well, but a month apart really is a very short time, and it doesn't sound like he's going to the far ends of the earth either. Some people have to be apart much longer...so much longer than a month. Count yourself lucky.

Go ahead, RaVeN, do you worst. I'm ready for it.

Irene Wilde
 
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