Well I think it will be nice getting to know you "Sally Sausages", interesting handle BTW!
I've only started coming here recently but it has a very pleasant feel.
The first forum I ever went on was a Sci Fi gaming type forum
http://forums.taldren.com/ubbthreads/ubbthreads.php?Cat=
- I was with my ex G/F at the time and we both were aghast by the very
staunch right views and militaristic views there, so I left ( and we broke up- but that's another story
)
Then I "hung" around at
http://www.outpost10f.com/cgi-bin/forums/ikonboard.pl?s=4054d1eb1942ffff;act=SF;f=1
A Sci Fi Fantasy place, mainly Star Trek-
for a while, people there were friendly and accomodating, and I chatted there too. Infact in my last 5 week road trip across the uSa ( 10,000 miles!) I met up with many of these folks. It was very pleasant and educational. However the ranking system started to really narck me- it lead to cliqueyness, and a forum mafia (which has to some extent been extinguished!). Alot of us Brits from that forum still meet up at the end of every month at Pages bar in London but I find myself keeping my distance from the site of late, as little trigger happy teenagers get promoted and go on power trips (higher rankers get more "powers" and more respect apparently!).
One of my most recent forums is a car place stumbled across:
I was doing a search on a very esoteric field of one of my passions-cars, and found an informative article - then I looked to find that I had written it 8 years ago and this forum/site had taken it, but they DID at least give me credit for it!
http://e21.tricord.cjb.net/
[ My beloved old car, my companion since 1990, is posted up there!]
When I introduced myself there, apparently alot of people there already knew me, ( articles have been done on me and my car and my profession in various magazines) and it felt really good to be apprecaited (for a change!)
Perhaps it speaks volumes about ME that I haven't "stayed" at one particular site for long, perhaps its connected to the fact that I also haven't stayed in relationships for long term, unfortunately. May be it's no coincidence that the two things I've stuck with in my life are automotive related, - My work and my car. Wasn't it in "Zen and the Art of Motorcyle Maintainance" that the author hinted that looking after the machine is looking after your rational side?
But then again, I'm over analysing- most deifinately- but in a fun way- after all
Even Freud said, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar!