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What is your perception of ideal intimacy?And----

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Crystal

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:) Attention please, boys and girls, ladies and gentlemen:

Well, every one of us might have our own perception of ideal intimacy relationship. What is it like to you? And how far do you think you are on the journey to your ideal intimacy? (Is this topic proper/serious in this forum??)

Would you like to share your opinion? Thank you for your cooperative participation. (Hope you like this thread.)


Well, honestly, I myself do have a beautiful picture on mind about the kind of intimacy i really want. (trust, can talk about anything freely without a fear of being judged, happy together, etc,etc,etc.) :cool:

But, you know, yeah, however, well, um---. I am still thousands or even millions of miles away from him. Fortunately and hopefully, he is still living on the EARTH though. :rolleyes:

BESTS
 
Someone with whom I can share anything...together on a mental level, as well as on an emotional level. Someone whose mind is entwined with mine fully (this means total understanding, not necessarily total agreement).

I'm not sure my ideal of intimacy is even possible.
 
I don't think it's possible for one person to understand (really understand) another person (or him- or herself for that matter), so I've given up on hoping for that.

What would intimacy involve for me? Not having to think twice about what you say before you say it, being absolutely comfortable with being "physical" with eachother, (Physicalness is difficult for me. It involves a lot of thinking.) and... I don't know... trust?
 
Intimacy. He is passionate about you, as passionate throughout the years, as at the start of the relationship. He loves you, as he would never love, could never love, another. He makes no judgement. He idolises you. He doesn’t question your happiness – he responds. He doesn’t question your tears – he comforts. He is with you through the black moods, through the light. He gazes on you with adoration, as if blinkered to the rest of the world. He protects, shields you from harm. He warms your heart in the darkness of night. He is, in fact, a dog.

Third Man Girl
 
third man girl said:
He is, in fact, a dog.Third Man Girl
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Finally, someone's been paying attention.
Yes, RaVeN was in fact a dog... but not just any dog. Sure, he could burry a bone with the best of 'em :D and hump a leg like there was no tomorrow but his expertise was in sniffing. That boy could shove his nose up a skirt higher than Wabbit can bounce.

RaVeN
(kinda..sniff sniff..brings a tear..sniff.. to my eye..sniff sniff WAAAAHHH)
 
This was a good thread, 'til you came along, RaVeN.

Intimacy: To be able to completely, totally and utterly be yourself, whether happy, sad, angry, depressed, whatever, and to know that she will be there, to stand with you in the face of any problem, no matter how big.

Cheers, Martin :D
 
Martin said:
This was a good thread, 'til you came along, RaVeN.

Intimacy: To be able to completely, totally and utterly be yourself, whether happy, sad, angry, depressed, whatever, and to know that she will be there, to stand with you in the face of any problem, no matter how big.

Cheers, Martin :D
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WHAT?
I was just being intimate (by your definition).
Isn't that what this thread is all about? :D

RaVeN
 
About dogs sniffing up skirts and humping legs?

Sorry, I must have misunderstood the initial question.

Cheers, Martin :D
 
Martin said:
About dogs sniffing up skirts and humping legs?

Sorry, I must have misunderstood the initial question.

Cheers, Martin :D
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That's okay, shit happens. :D

RaVeN
 
Okay people, move along, move along. You've all seen spam before haven't ya? Come on, keep it moving, let's go....

RaVeN
:D
 
Intimacy:

A sense of closeness, trust, desire to share, readiness to expose weakness, readiness to let go guards, eagerness to explore the deep end together. Intimacy is a bond of hearts between two people.

Intimacy helps each party to find more within themselves than otherwise.


Intimacy is not possession. Not exclusivity. It stands on its own rights without any condition on what each party does elsewhere, and otherwise.

(You're right, that's not mine.)

Cheers, Martin :D
 
headpodd said:
Someone to whom you can tell your deepest, darkest secret without thinking twice about it.
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I like this comment. Uh, but headpodd, do you think you reach your ideal intimacy? or are you content with it now? :)
 
lies said:
I don't think it's possible for one person to understand (really understand) another person (or him- or herself for that matter), so I've given up on hoping for that.

What would intimacy involve for me? Not having to think twice about what you say before you say it, being absolutely comfortable with being "physical" with eachother, (Physicalness is difficult for me. It involves a lot of thinking.) and... I don't know... trust?
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:) REALLY understand? no, sometimes I just find that language is the most misleading/misunderstanding tool in the world.

Actually, we don't have to reach that level. It is helpful, my opinion, that we just be there with the one, empathy,maybe. Accepting that we could have our own unique differences is enough. :rolleyes:
 
I have ever heard that, 'It is not the person with whom we get married, we got married with a life.' Cannot remember the exact words. Sounds like that we only choose the different individual in the particular catergory/group which attract us.

Am i clear in expressing myself? :rolleyes:

BESTS
 
Read an article once that stated it is not the level of intimacy that determined whether a relationship will last but that both partners are comfortable with the level of intimacy achieved. So, the key is that both partners expect the same amount of intimacy.
 
Intimacy??

Hmmm, dont remember the word ...... so, this thread is about sex yeah?! ;)

Phil (helping to reinforce male stereotypes the world over :D)
 
phil_t said:
Intimacy??

Hmmm, dont remember the word ...... so, this thread is about sex yeah?! ;)

Phil (helping to reinforce male stereotypes the world over :D)
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Just English male stereotypes. :D :D :D

Third Man Girl
 
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