What seems to come up every time a person is caught in a lie is a more and more common belief, or at least defense, that there is no such thing as truth. I know it is a bit of a leap here, but it really doesn't surprise me in the least to see something like this when such attitudes to truth are common. Haven't we dealt with this in regards to the whole Clinton scandal a few years back? I know the situations are very different, but the same type of articles surfaced during both times. On one hand you have articles saying that there really aren't any lies merely one's own perception, and on the other hand you have people bemoaning the downfall of all civilization based on an increased disregard for the truth. Frankly, both camps take it too far, and I think it's time for someone to set some new frameworks.
The whole idea of relativistic truth as I understood it was supposed to be regarding moral truths of right and wrong in incidents when something of great value is at stake (the classic example of lying about runaway slaves or other historical instances), so I feel we should have some different standard for facts about someone's life. It's one thing to have an honest slip in memory, especially during a trying time, but from my understanding Frey wasn't even close to what happened in the parts he did "embellish."
Facts still exist. Perhaps you don't remember exactly how jail was, but you would certainly know if you were ever there. If you "forgot" about it, it would not take long to check public records. It's one thing to give your viewpoint about an event, but it is a different issue when you are giving your viewpoint about an event that never happened. That is called fiction, and it can be very entertaining. Of course, I had no intention of reading Frey's book because I don't particularly like Oprah and I am not one fro memoirs. What does concern me a bit is that viewpoints are always acceptable even in history textbooks, but how long before history books make claims that are easily discredited? What's the harm, it's just their perception, right?