Kookamoor
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Wolhay said:After someone has actually died it's not likely that they'll care. Emotions seem to be something unique to the living.
I couldn't disagree more. There are some very private emotions and issues within everyone's lives that are private for a reason. If I die under a bus on the way home tonight, the concept of someone then reading my journal, let alone publishing it for the world to see is heinous! Those things and thoughts are private for a reason! Just because someone dies does not mean that their wishes are no longer respected. That's what wills are for - this isn't a life after death discussion, this is about respecting someones wishes.
Publishing a book that someone didn't want published is the same as violating a will. Do you mean to tell me, Wolhay, that if a little old lady bequeathed $1 million to her 20 cats, you think that money should be used for something else? Granted, $1 million would benefit the homeless/hungry/sick far more than 20 cats, but that's not the way things work in our society. We respect the wishes of the dead, no matter how else we might benefit from their goods and material possessions.
mehastings said:Respect is respect.
I don't know what the author wanted any more than her family possibly knows... but the same alarm bells rang for me, mehastings.