I would definitely recommend to only do it if it is medically necessary. A girl on a pain management site just posted the other day with a similar story to mine - undiagnosed pain syndrome seven years after birth of daughter and botched epidural.
Well, I do have a to kind of say that if you do want to do an epidural (your wife i mean), just be sure you research doctors and find out who is great and get recommendations, so you know when the time comes you can request him/her. Also, so that you can maybe get the names of anesthesiologists who aren't so great. This happened with the birth of AJ and although I have this condition, I am glad it was done, as it would have been medically necessary in the end anyways, if I hadn't been able to push so quickly, because I had complete abruption of the placenta and AJ could have died. We didn't know it was abrupted. They suspected right before he was delivered, because I was gushing blood. We both could have died. I only pushed for five minutes, but she was already preparing to convert to Cesarean because of the loss of blood and her suspicions, but I was able to get him out fast (lots of practice with delivering all three girls, even twins, the old fashioned way). So, I would rather have a healthy AJ and a bad back than possibly no AJ. The doctor said in 17 years of practice, she had never delivered a completely abrupted baby that didn't at least have to be revived. AJ came out a bit pale, but screaming and very, very alert!
And thanks very much for the compliments. I try to stay out of the pit of despair (as Anne of Green Gables would say
lol)
Good luck to you and your wife. I will pray just for a healthy delivery for mom and baby.
And anyone is welcome on this thread. As she said, it is for the bored and loopy and I think many fit that description here!