Flowerdk4 said:
I kind of like people who live whatever they are feeling! Rational thinking and material things are not whats it cracked up to be.
Flower
OK, that's us - not too keen on rational thinking, and not thinking material things to be the big deal.
Why, most of us do not even have plans for as far as next Monday.
Flowerdk4 said:
I once heard a radio program about some russian students. They were talking about the difference between living like they always had and now being being to buy many new things etc. Cant remember if it was the usa they went and visit. They said something about that all the new stuff did not give them anything, it was very superficial and it did not do much for their hearts and souls.
Flower
You know, students are special folks. They very often say things very different from what they'll say in a year or two, and sometimes even what they say isn't what they think, but rather what they would like to think or believe.
And, you know, it is OK to see nothing in lots of different "nose cleaning devices" and other contemporary marvels one could find in a USA shop maybe, but to live without a mobile, an air conditioner, personal computer or a refrigerator... And I am sure if we lived in our Russian socialism now - we would not have all these things, together with enough meat, fruits or a possibility to travel, to start with... (so these students wouldn't have being able to try a western life, if that hadn't been approved by The Party - and in that case those students would have been "good comrades" too).
Flowerdk4 said:
I have a friend who was born and lived in the east germany and she has told how it was like to live there before the wall broke down. You can always talk about freedom. But I did not find it to be so bad. They got to get education and jobs, daycare for children was free and as a students she had her own appartment and had money to go to caffees, theatre etc. Not a bad life!
Flower
Errr... You know, to understand it one has to try and feel it: yes, we had free education, medical care and... let me see... no, kindergartens were for money from around 1925 on... yes, jobs... almost free jobs...
This, excluding jobs, we have even now. Plus free drugs, transport tickets and local resorts for pensioneers, along with some other free things...
But: I forgot when I've seen insides of a free clinic: I would gladly pay to be admitted into a pay one, rather than to have shock of trying our "free medical care". Really, the last time I've been there was 8 years ago or so, when I started to feel pain in my back. They checked me, and I was told that it was a problem I will live with the rest of my life, and there was nothing they could do to cure it, save for temporary relief injections. (And I could hardly sit or walk normally then, and to get into a car was sometimes impossible for me). After that I started my own program - push-ups and spine-training, swimming etc. So in several years my spinal pains almost ceased to exist, and now they occur for two or three times a year, but I even manage not to remain at home at such times - so much weakier they are now than they were then...
So: a "free" thing is not always a good thing.
And, really, these "free" education etc. are really matters of how to look at them: OK, our government paid us only fractions of what we really earned. So they could easily give us some "free" things, paid for from what they took out of our salaries...
Flowerdk4 said:
I once saw a tv program about the former east germany, where they showed films etc. And one thing which I found was so great and which I really could do with, is that they had a shop where you go and get all your electric machines repaired. You simply handed it there and they repaired it for you. I thought that was such a great thing, instead of always throwing it away and get a new one. I havent seen a shop like this and its even hard to find some place where they can repair your radio or tv. Maybe this is something a woman, who has no techical skills would notice, I dont know.
Flower
We had such repair shops then, and we have them now. Though in many cases a repaired thing cannot last long. And in some cases repairs cost nearly as much as the broken thing itself... It is especially the case with the mobile phones - our family stopped to repair them after paying for repairs of two of phones, and having them broken up again in less then a week time each...
Flowerdk4 said:
I am curious about the kind of life you had as I somehow sense and think, that there is so much life going on if you take away all the material stuff. It may look nice to have a lot of nice things, but I am thinking what kind of life are these people living? What is important to them? How do they socialise? What are their values etc.? All the kind of things which will not show if you just look at someones life but dont get underneath the surface.
So you see, I dont think of your past as negative. I think of it, as the circumstances must have forced people to make life in another way, and that may very well be of much value.
Flower
You know, we had lots of good things, and lots of bad things. But I think it could be true of any country in the world to some extent.
What essentially had been wrong then - was lots of lies. You know, our communism had been a mountain of lies from the beginning, covered with clouds of other lies.
Our country has been ruled by people who proclaimed themselves "champions of the working classes", and some of them never had been, and others had long forgotten how they really worked themselves. And more than that - they despiced the workers, and manipulated them. Of course, a worker could have gone to the top - and some really did, but to do that one had to learn to speak not what he thought, but what he was expected to say. So when he entered that "top space" he hasn't already been a worker, but a "party leader", learned how to lie and manipulate. And while they said that there were no rich or poor in our country, - there were lots of poor and very poor, and quite a lot of rich - at least if we check them against what an average Russian posessed. I had known a boy whose father had been a KGB colonel - their family lived as princes, with several cars, forein refrigerators, TVs, furniture - when an average Russian had to wait for month to buy a color TV, and sometimes many years for furniture or a car (if one had money enough, wich had not been all that often). And it is not one's need to have a refrigerator or a TV which is frustrating, but the injustice of that supposedly all were equal in theory, and very much not equal in practice.
So. I am always ready to speak about our past and our present. (By the way, of course we have quite a lot of problems now - I understand people who say that THEN it has been better than NOW.) I discuss it quite often really. Too bad I do not have enough time to color a picture of our life for you with all the colours that there were then...
But please ask me - and I will try to...