Sadly, you might correct.
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I used to be a creative writer...now I'm in a different setting and have become more technical, my gift for gab does not shine through. However, if you hand me a Math problem (honest, I have studied Math a lot more extensively than I ever did writing) I'm lucky if I can remember which finger to use to count with.
However, my sister, a year younger is a huge Math Wizard and couldn't write herself out of a paper bag. Yes, she knows the words, she knows how to string them together grammatically...but she cannot put them together so you would want to read them.
I must say the topic caught my interest.
I love writing and am passionate about it. I got some stick on this site once and haven't been back much although I do believe criticism can be a good thing. I love the comment by Vincent Peale that, "Most of us would rather be ruined by flattery than saved by criticism".
All this talk about the same words and verse improving over time gives one hope.. I object to criticism when people haven't even read the book.
That isn't worth anything, but honest critics I will always listen to.
that's why I was inclined to agree with the ppl who said that no amount of positive reinforcement will save some one who just can't BUT I think where it might make a difference is if that positive reinforcement came at the right moment in your life ie BEFORE you have a chance to form a negative opinion about your abilities.
There are obviously limitations to its effect. Thinking positive isn't going to make a blonde turn into a brunette or vice versa, but I think the power of belief to generate a reality shouldn't be dismissed either.
I used my sister and I purposefully...both children raised by the same parents. One is better at writing, one is better at Math. We received the same encouragement from both parents in all our endeavors. But, you will never make me a Mathematician or my sister a Writer. The basic innate talent needs to be there.
However, what about this? I just want to throw out a little idea here - let's say instead of telling yourself how great you are, why not ask questions about how great you could become instead? Is it possible, if you ask yourself repeatedly, "How can I become a great writer?" that your brain will work on the question and eventually find an answer? Of course you would still have to put in the time pounding your keyboard. But while your fingers are busy pounding out awful prose your brain just might be working quietly in the background on the question you've repeatedly posed to it.
However, what about this? I just want to throw out a little idea here - let's say instead of telling yourself how great you are, why not ask questions about how great you could become instead? Is it possible, if you ask yourself repeatedly, "How can I become a great writer?" that your brain will work on the question and eventually find an answer? Of course you would still have to put in the time pounding your keyboard. But while your fingers are busy pounding out awful prose your brain just might be working quietly in the background on the question you've repeatedly posed to it.