Libra
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She was in control because he liked her. Too bad he could never admit it to himself.
I think she was trying to get it out of him.Didn't work.
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She was in control because he liked her. Too bad he could never admit it to himself.
I think she was trying to get it out of him.Didn't work.
Not sure if it's appropriate, but the descriptor (for Stevens) that came to mind throughout the entire book was "tightass." The guy couldn't loosen up for anything -- not Miss Kenton, not his father dying, not a lighthearted American, not friendly strangers. He was pretty confident that that worked for him, but geez. Come on.
Is that the exact word you thought of? lol
I agree.
Not sure if it's appropriate, but the descriptor (for Stevens) that came to mind throughout the entire book was "tightass." The guy couldn't loosen up for anything -- not Miss Kenton, not his father dying, not a lighthearted American, not friendly strangers. He was pretty confident that that worked for him, but geez. Come on.
He makes the biggest, most subtle mistake in the very last line of the book that hints that he's even more like his father than first thought.It is sad. Stevens is getting ready to return to Darlington Hall and he's starting to make mistakes just like his father at the opening of the book.
Yes, it's a fun scene (as is the one where he's ordered to explain the birds and the bees to Lord Darlington's godson) but I don't quite buy that Stevens would narrate it. It's too obviously designed by Ishiguro to showcase their unresolved relationship for Stevens to NOT get it if he's going to mention it at all. He'd either be clueless and find it pointless (and not mention it) or realise what it is and find it unseemly (and not mention it).That whole scene where she goes in the room and really goes after the book he is reading was histerical,and even at that point he didn't get it.
On the other hand, they contrast Stevens and Kenton with the young couple who run away from the house, naively thinking they can live on love alone. It's a balance thing.As I read it (and correct me if anyone disagrees), his endeavor to be a great butler and serve his employers completely stifled any emotional expression at all, and in doing so, eliminated life choices that might have brought him away from serving the house.
I'm not sure that makes him an anachronism as such. It's not like sentiments like that have disappeared over the last 50 years.Stevens is somewhat of an anachronism. His ideals regarding what is a proper gentelman starts with the idea that an Englishman gentelman is better then a foreign gentlman, a gentleman is better then businessman, some houses are more prestigious then others. He would without thought put an englishman before an american gentleman.
To me, the payoff was the question: "Where's the dignity in that?" The novel doesn't necessarily offer any answers. Stevens lives to serve others. He's so hung up on doing things right that he never stops to ask himself if he's doing the right things.It's not until the end that I think he starts to see that his way is not the only way, that life might have turned out differently. I doubt he would do anything differently if given the chance, and I'm not even saying that he should, but I just thought that his realization that he could have had a warmer relationship with his father or ended up with Miss Kenton was poignant. I'm not even sure if he really had that realization or if I just interpreted his thoughts in that direction, but I dunno. Just seems very sad to me.
I've been trying to put together some thoughts on this, and I might as well jot them down now or I'll never get it done.
On a whole, I thought it was a very well-written book, raising a bunch of interesting ideas, but never quite managing to capture me completely. I think part of it is the same problem that I have with a lot of first-person narratives; I love Stevens' voice for the most part, Ishiguro really captures it, but there are a few points in the story that I simply don't buy that Tightass Stevens would actually say this, to himself or to someone else. For instance:
Yes, it's a fun scene (as is the one where he's ordered to explain the birds and the bees to Lord Darlington's godson) but I don't quite buy that Stevens would narrate it. It's too obviously designed by Ishiguro to showcase their unresolved relationship for Stevens to NOT get it if he's going to mention it at all. He'd either be clueless and find it pointless (and not mention it) or realise what it is and find it unseemly (and not mention it).
As a servant, he can see everything happening around him, he gets to meet all the "great" people (as shown in the scene in the little village), but he has no response to the claim that every English citizen, having fought for democracy, has the same dignity as the highest Lord... because he has none himself outside of the one reflected upon him by his "betters"? Because he never fought for anything himself - whether country, politics, or love? He's a professional. Love, by definition, is for amateurs.
I watched the movie too. Thought it was a pretty faithful adaptation, keeping all aspects of the story intact rather than turn it into just the story of Kenton and Stevens, even if it was a lot less subtle about the war-related aspects (making the Jewish girls German refugees, moving the American's speech from 1923 to 1936, etc). A good film, though I'm not sure if Hopkins was right for the part; he's much more convincing as Stevens the man than as Stevens the butler.
I see what you mean beergood,so he got it when Miss Kenton was after him for the book but " He's a professional. Love, by definition, is for amateurs."?
No, that's not quite what I meant, although I'm not sure what to make of that scene. It's so obviously set up to be a scene showing how he doesn't get it - hence his surprise when she explicitly says she pictured a life with him at the end - and yet there's no point to him narrating the scene in that way if he doesn't get it. It's a scene that worked much better in the movie, where the camera is the independent narrator.
As for love being for amateurs, "amateur" means "lover."
No, that's not quite what I meant, although I'm not sure what to make of that scene. It's so obviously set up to be a scene showing how he doesn't get it - hence his surprise when she explicitly says she pictured a life with him at the end - and yet there's no point to him narrating the scene in that way if he doesn't get it. It's a scene that worked much better in the movie, where the camera is the independent narrator.
As for love being for amateurs, "amateur" means "lover."
It's a really astute point that you've made. I feel like you've articulated something that's been on the periphery of my thoughts on this whole book, and first person accounts in general. Good observation
you may or may not like the character-Mr. Stephens and his value system but the book is really about how a prim and proper gentleman leads his entire life in pursuit of honour and sacrifices a lot of life's true pleasures in the process...