chiangmaifalcon
New Member
Here you go again, Vicki. You need to calm down. Did you ever stop and think that maybe you are the only one who is so upset? Some people actually find humor in this kind of written combat. It is much safer and less violent than actual combat. Really, what is the big deal? Would not forum be boring if everyone agreed all the time?
You say you can take a lot of joking back and forth, but obviously you cannot.
I have made peace with this and rather drop it, but since you brought it up, I never actually called anyone a dyke and anyway this was not serious, it was a reaction to me being called scum. This whole episode I regret and wish it never happened. But I have no bad feeling sot anyone on forum for this anymore and I have moved on, as you say.
As for making fun of your English, people here are constantly making fun of the way I talk Thai. So what? If I make jokes about someone because of where they are from, so what again. Try being an American living abroad. This is a daily event.
It is not even 6 am here and one of first things I did after making coffee was read forum. I was very happy to see I got message from you, Vicky. Obviously, for some reason you are not minding this discussion because you could very easily just ignore it. But you do not. Why is that?
As for growing up, why would I want to do that? If I grow up, I will have to face fact I am getting old. This is no fun. Perhaps I am a wannabe comedian. But the closest I will ever get to that is this forum.
Here is something you will not understand, but perhaps others on forum will. People who have to witness much death and horror, as I have done, whether you believe it or not I don't care, but this is a fact, find humor to be a very important defense against losing your mind completely. Ask any combat veteran, police officer, firefighter or nurse and they will tell you this. Believe this, anything anyone does or says here on forum is no big deal when you really think about it. No one will die, or be tortured or lose an arm or leg from this forum. Many of the western people I associate with regularly in SE Asia are combat veterans who came here during Vietnam War. We regularly joke with each other in this confrontational manner, and so this is just what I am used to.
There is a saying in America. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen.
Love, Jim
You say you can take a lot of joking back and forth, but obviously you cannot.
I have made peace with this and rather drop it, but since you brought it up, I never actually called anyone a dyke and anyway this was not serious, it was a reaction to me being called scum. This whole episode I regret and wish it never happened. But I have no bad feeling sot anyone on forum for this anymore and I have moved on, as you say.
As for making fun of your English, people here are constantly making fun of the way I talk Thai. So what? If I make jokes about someone because of where they are from, so what again. Try being an American living abroad. This is a daily event.
It is not even 6 am here and one of first things I did after making coffee was read forum. I was very happy to see I got message from you, Vicky. Obviously, for some reason you are not minding this discussion because you could very easily just ignore it. But you do not. Why is that?
As for growing up, why would I want to do that? If I grow up, I will have to face fact I am getting old. This is no fun. Perhaps I am a wannabe comedian. But the closest I will ever get to that is this forum.
Here is something you will not understand, but perhaps others on forum will. People who have to witness much death and horror, as I have done, whether you believe it or not I don't care, but this is a fact, find humor to be a very important defense against losing your mind completely. Ask any combat veteran, police officer, firefighter or nurse and they will tell you this. Believe this, anything anyone does or says here on forum is no big deal when you really think about it. No one will die, or be tortured or lose an arm or leg from this forum. Many of the western people I associate with regularly in SE Asia are combat veterans who came here during Vietnam War. We regularly joke with each other in this confrontational manner, and so this is just what I am used to.
There is a saying in America. If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen.
Love, Jim