Nosferatu Man said:
As much as I love you, Hollis, I don't go along with your idea that death is a tragic loss of life. It's just natural, and the only thing you can guarantee to happen in your life. The most recent death of a person I respect immensely, has been John Peel, but I didn't 'have a minute of silence to pay my respects' to him. What does that mean, anyway: 'Pay my respects'? When I read the news, I just sort of felt, well, that's a damn shame. I didn't cry or go around whispering for a dozen days, I just sort of got on with it. Am I a) sensibly in control of my emotions, or b) a psychopath?
Um...sounds like your feeling of "Well that's a shame" WAS paying respects of a sort. I'm not saying you need to go set up a shrine or cry or whisper or whatever. That's silly. But you said yourself...you actually felt something. Why do things always have to be taken so extreme? That little pang of acknowledgement of a life being ended, of that's a shame...to me, it's showing respect, rather than automatically saying, "OK, moving on. Who cares!"
Yes, death is natural, but it still affects people. I am a religious person, so I believe in the afterlife. So death in a way can be a joyous occasion. At the same time, it can cause a person to mourn.
I think when I was writing my first post, I was more thinking of all the things I read in various places about Terry Schiavo finally passing away and people saying, "Finally!" It just seemed so...callous because they weren't saying finally everyone could have peace, but rather finally because they didn't have to see it anymore, that they could care less that there was one less life in the world. I've seen it with the pope too. I don't know. I've always felt life was sacred and for people to actually make callous remarks about someone's death...it's just odd to me.
And novella, I see what you're saying because he goes against a lot of your ideals. But, and again, this is me being most likely supremely naive and overly optimistic, even people like that must have something in them that makes them worth something. A person doesn't have to wail and cry and bow 3 times or whatever. But he was someone's kid, someone's friend, someone's mentor. I know, I know...ya'll are going to come back at me by mentioning someone like Osama, aren't you?
Ah well, I'm happy in my world! lol. I think it's best I just stay out of this thread from here on out! See ya! ^_^