bobbyburns
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Litany said:A book is just as much an escape as tv, or shopping, and I tend to agree with Bobby, if your life really is full then you wouldn't need to escape into someone else's. Maybe you then call your life with books a full one, but what's the shame in admitting you needed something more?
there's no shame, none whatsoever. it's just a matter of observing yourself, your desires. we all get high on good feelings ... cigarettes, religion, books, hand jobs, t.v., comfort, acceptance, status, you name it. we're dependent on some form of pleasure, it's mechanical. most people see no reason to change, their mind stays in one spot, they use just one part of their brain, and so the rest becomes dull or dies. you get set in your ways. this is why most elderly people can't ingest anything new. the brain constantly sends signals along neural paths, and overtime it wires itself a certain way, like a program in a computer. that conditioning then determines every choice they make. that goes for you and me too. so the trick is really to try and change it while you're not yet set in a pattern, because then it becomes very difficult.