I would say that there's a shard of truth to what VestnikRA says, even if he's misunderstood it completely. We all, to a certain extent, create our reality in that we make an interpretation of it, and that that interpretation has influence on our actions. In that way, obviously, our thoughts can have influence on physical reality in the long run.
However, the idea that we can create and change physical reality, or change what other people do, simply by our own thoughts is, as Revised said, bordering on psychotic. And saying that women cause themselves to be raped is nothing short of despicable. I'd say it's one of the most offensive things I've read on this site.