MonkeyCatcher said:
Not if the person making the arguement or opnion is not ignorant. Before making an arguement for something an intelligent person should first look at both sides of the story before making an informed judgement on weither they are in the right. What's the point of fighting for something that you don't believe in?
That was what I like to call a joke. Evidently I'm terrible at it.
Monkey Catcher said:
I disagree - I think that men are discriminated against just as much as women are. Homosexual men are prey to prejudice almost all the time, and I think that the occurance of discrimination against homosexual men occurs more often than discrimination against women. I think that the issue of prejudice against homosexuals is, in fact, more pressing than that of prejudice against women.
So is the issue of world poverty. And nuclear war. And religious hatred. But the discussion is about prejudice against women. (Actually it's about books and intelligence, but we'll pretend we haven't derailed the thread for now...) If homosexual men are discriminated against, the same goes for women.
MonkeyCatcher said:
And never did I say that it was o.k for it to happen to women. I'm just showing that women are not the only ones who are discriminated against. It's not like females are alone in this so why should other people have to discriminated against in order to make it "fair"?
I never thought that you did say that. Just as I never said that other people should be discriminated against to make it fair. Let's turn my original statement around: Just because it happens to women, doesn't mean it's right for it to happen to men. Your defence seemed to imply "well, it happens to everyone, deal with it, women!" In no instance is discrimination right. But again, the issue is discrimination against women, and I'm a woman, so I put it that way round.
And I would dispute your statement that it happens just as much to men. When Tony Blair became Prime Minister, no newspaper ran stories about his ability to cope, because he was male. Whereas every time Margaret Thatcher did something wrong (frequently, but that's beside the point) her gender became an issue. Obviously there are many instances, and your example of homosexuality is a good one, but for women, it's routine. Being male, you may not understand this, but it is an everyday occurrence for most women that they will be told, or it will be implied, that they are worth less than men.
MonkeyCatcher said:
As I have already stated, I was not using the word feminist in this term. If you look back you will notice that I stated I was using it in terms of a women who believes herself to be better than men.
And if you look back you will notice that I edited my post to acknowledge your definition. But I let my original comment stand because that definition is a minority of women, and I also thought I should point out that "feminists" aren't a bizarre sub-group, but everyone who is not bigoted and prejudiced.
MonkeyCatcher said:
And I agree with this also. I in no way condone the discrimination of women, and I'm not trying to say that it is ok in any way. I was trying to highlight the problem that we get when we try to fix discriminations such as these in that other groups are then discriminated against. It obviously needs to end, but not in a way which makes it unfair to other people.
It will end when people stop saying that it's a problem too difficult to change. The same goes for other discrimination issues. I agree, as I said above, that there are probably more important things (the rabid feminist in me shrieks "no, nothing is more important!!"), but if people keep shifting the focus like this and saying "there are worse issues, deal with it" then nothing will ever get solved. It's simple. Every single person in the world needs to realise that their gender, race, religion and age do not make them better than any other person. I may be young, foolish and idealistic, but that's what I want to see. The more we say it's difficult, the more we'll believe it'll never happen.
MonkeyCatcher said:
Does it matter where the discrimination comes from? You yourself stated that it is unjust that women are called sluts when they sleep around, and this term usually comes from females, not males. Again, the source of the discrimination is irrelevant.. the content of the discrimination, however, is what we should be focusing on.
Women are discriminated against, and this /does/ need to stop, but not at the expense of others, such as males who are forced from a job they rightly deserve just because another applicant is female. I actually think that the more pressing issue is that of the discrimination of homosexuality and that of people of certain racial groups. Most people are no longer ignorant of the fact that women can contribute just as much as a male can, but there is still wide-spread and worse discrimination of homosexuals and certain ethnic races which is in need of more urgent attention, IMO.
I agree. Don't get the impression I'm attacking you personally - it's just a touchy issue for a lot of women. I also think that differences between religions need sorting out before more people die. After all, few women die from discrimination these days (oh wait, except in countries where we can be stoned to death or mutilated because we're inferior...). I hate all this positive discrimination just as much as you, because it implies that women are incapable of getting a job by fair means, and have to be helped along by law.
(oh, and the bit about the source of the discrimination - I was being a bit silly, implying that one set of people are responsible for all the ills of society. Not meant to be taken entirely literally.)
Evidently, if the Book Forum ruled the world, we'd be sorted.