I have to say Peder that at first, I was shocked to learn that you had read 50 shades.
LOL
SFG, I'm not sure why my personally reading the book should have been shocking; I hope I haven't been coming across in this forum as prudish or a goody-two-shoes. I have found the whole discussion of
50 Shades truly astonishing, on both this thread and its own thread elsewhere on BAR, in the variety of excuses offered for not reading the book, or for otherwise denigrating it. Without meaning to sound as if I am recommending the book, I have found many of the excuses to be truly wondrous. I can't cover them all, but:
I have never heard so many people supposedly horrified by the alleged number of typos in the text. Typos and syntax errors?! Give me a break. I never knew we readers were so mortally offended by such things. (And the number of errors is negligible).
Poor writing style? Feh. One person's poor is another person's OK. An unimaginative heroine with a limited range of expression? Oh dear, oh my! Has anyone looked into the Harlequin series lately? Or the new so called "street-literature" ?
Origins in fan-fic? Oh horrors! There is fan-fic and there is fan-fic. Some of it pretty good, and yes some of it more salacious than
50 Shades. And involving Buffy the Vampire Slayer, no less. Oh shock! Oh horror! Cover our eyes; shut our ears!
There is well regarded literature that has its erotic passages (
Lady Chatterly's Lover, Ulysses, the
Tropics of Henry Miller
).
There are novels much more boring. At risk of being stoned to death, I'll mention
Middlemarch, which I am currently trying to read through. Or
Far From the Madding Crowd which bested me. Or anything by Edith Wharton.
And as for poisonous, I have read other literature that is truly much more corrosive to the human spirit and to one's understanding of humanity. People should try reading original descriptions of the Holocaust some day.
I would say that, in whatever direction one wishes to criticize
50 Shades, there is literature much more extreme that one might find more shocking. And if one hasn't heard about the varieties of sex before, I don't know what to say, except perhaps that one has led a truly sheltered life.
So, if one feels one will have to offer an excuse to one's neighbors and friends for reading the book, then perhaps one should skip it entirely and, instead. join in the general bashing without reading the book. It seems to bring out the urge to bash in people. But I also think that many a person who shoulders their way through the shouting picket lines, and actually reads the book, will find a book rather different than they expected.
Finally, if for any reason one wishes to not read the book, then just skip it. There are many other books that we don't read either, without getting vociferous about them.