I'm sorry if that's how it comes across. It's Christmas, nobody should have to feel shut out. I mean that. But your argument was going nowhere, and nobody feels like a fight. Tell you what: let's resume this discussion after the holidays, OK? Have something good to eat, read a good book, hug someone. Relax, tonight of all nights.
YouTube - The Ramones - Merry Christmas (I Don't Want To Fight Tonight)
Good man. And on that note, I am off to bed.