pontalba said:
What if any ramifications would Lolita's older brother have had on events described in HH's little diary had he lived?
Pontalba,
Hm, hm, hm.
That's going to take some head scratching!
I don't have any older, or younger, brothers or sisters, so I am completely at sea, and I can't even recall reading any books with that relationship explored.
But I ended up thinking of my own children. Two older daughters and two younger sons, which however, is still the reverse of what you are asking about. But among my four I have always been quite surprised that they are each other's best friends, after reading all the stuff about sibling rivalry and so on.
And they each seem to have their favorite brother or sister, the older ones of each relating best to each other, and then the younger ones likewise (and all better to each other than to their parents, I have to add
) It has been fascinating!
So to attempt an answer to your question, I would guess that an older brother, or any brother, would have provided her with more of a feeling of family and probaly have given her a playmate and friend, and protector (!), through all the years of her childhood and, therefore, stabilized her interests to a more age-appropriate level. Even if Charlotte showed no interest in them, they would have been each other's friends and stuck together.
I can't even begin to imagine what would have happened in our household if one of my daughters of tender age (there's a quaint phrase! ) started going out with an older man, or one of my sons with an older woman. The reaction would probably be so bad that we would never hear about it in the first place!
And I also guess their siblings would be confided in first, before their parents. Even now they have their lives with each other that we don't hear much at all about. And without a doubt every family is different!
So, short answer, the events would never have happened IMO.
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Peder