this is a strange medium that we operate in. like reading, we get to fill in the blanks about the other members. one of the threads i started was about what we look like. it was not meant for people to post their own pics, but more of a dialogue in how we picture each other. tone of voice is lost too, and some of us are using a second or third language. i feel these are important things to keep in mind when posting and reading. someone will read this post and use their own imagined voice for me, their own idea of my looks, things that i have said in the past and that will influence their interpretation of what i mean. i feel that if we could just step back for a moment and say ok, what are they saying here, and then maybe ask for some clarification, before we pounce, then perhaps some sketchier threads would stay open a bit longer. and those with opinions in the not so popular catagory, might feel a bit more comfortable voicing them. it would make things awfully dull without them. who would argue with moto?