StillILearn said:
Sure would be good to get some more people back on board for these discussions. Oh, where did we go wrong?
(Not that the current company isn't completely scintillating, of course!)
Should we put up a suggestion box, perhaps?
Oh. That's exactly what you're doing.
Could it be all our smiley faces that're the problem?
Still,
I wonder exactly all the things you do. And really agree it would be great to scoop up all the people again who jumped ship. I'm not sure we did something wrong exactly. Actually, I think that what we did was
exactly right, for those of us who remained, even if, now as I look around, it seems somewhat different than most threads on the forum.
With no disrespect intended at all to any listeners or other Forumites, I think this thread was more like a personal encounter with the book for all of us, and much less like (I'll be brave) 'cocktail conversation' which is more prevalent. I use that term in self-confession because it was used to, or at, me by a member in a previous forum who found a long conversation with me unusual (3 posts!). But people are different, and here we found us (we, the strange ones) who engaged the book deeply and discussed our genuine reactions. Not better, not worse, just different.
And maybe we'll never catch lightning in a bottle again, but some visibillity with
Enchanter, out in General Books Discussion or Fiction, might serve as some advertising that Nabokov is again fair game on the Forum. (And BTW I an not the nicest most affable guy on the forum. I am Man, hear me growl! And I would use a smiley there, but my allotment has already been used for more useful purposes whch you already see below)
But part of the 'blame' goes to
Lolita also. (j/k I''m sure you know). The book itself always draws a crowd wherever it is discussed, and long lasting threads with many posts are not unusual for that particular book above all others.
I especially agree
that all
those smiley faces, like
and
and
and :wink: that we use
are real killers.
and there may be some who are put off
---- oops, can only use 15 I just found out.
So, man of few words that I am, (smiley) (smiley)
There are some thoughts
Peder